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parentingtoimpress.com
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https://parentingtoimpress.com/2024/07/chores-reduce-child-anxiety.html
While many factors contribute to this rise, I believe that assigning chores, like cooking and cleaning, can help reduce the anxiety that many children are experiencing. And I’m not alone in this thought.
## The Calming Effect of Chores
In their book, Kit and the Missing Notebook, authors Chris and Lindsey Wheeler teach children calming techniques through the activity of cooking. [...] Cooking: The sound of ingredients being washed, cut, or cooked, and the smell and taste of the finished product.
Vacuuming: The sound of the machine and the sight of clean carpet lines.
Washing Dishes: The feeling of the water.
Gardening: The feeling of dirt and the joy of seeing plants grow.
Laundry: The fresh scent of clean laundry and the different textures of the fabrics.
## The Importance of Working Together [...] However, I believe that working together has many benefits beyond just getting tasks done. Engaging in activities like working outside, cooking for the family, and cleaning the house together provides purpose, creates lasting memories, and builds character.
Let’s explore one more idea…What if working, cooking, and cleaning could actually help lower anxiety?
## The Rise of Anxiety in Children
Anxiety is on the rise among children. Here are some alarming stats:
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facebook.com
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https://www.facebook.com/groups/981444846852699/posts/1653307959666381
DAILY: wash dishes, wipe kitchen counters and stove, wipe table, 1 load of laundry, put away clothes, pick up toys/clothes/miscellaneous
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uhhospitals.org
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https://www.uhhospitals.org/blog/articles/2025/07/chores-are-good-for-kids
In the case of anxiety, chores can offer a sense of control and predictability. “An anxious brain thrives on structure,” she adds. “Doing something tangible and productive can ease intrusive thoughts and provide a mental reset.”
## Finding the Right Balance
Of course, every minute of a typical family life today can be accounted for, leaving parents to wonder whether to insist on chores at all. Dr. Harris acknowledges this tension and encourages flexibility. [...] Chores can also support mental health, particularly for kids and teens dealing with anxiety or depression. “One symptom of depression is lack of motivation, and the best antidote to that is activity,” Dr. Harris explains. “A set routine, even a small, manageable responsibility can help get kids moving and thinking.” [...] Assigning regular household duties can also enhance children’s cognitive development. According to Dr. Harris, chores strengthen executive functioning – the brain’s ability to plan, focus, switch between tasks and manage time effectively.
“Kids who have chores are typically better self-managers,” she says. “They develop stronger working memory, better emotional regulation and more mental flexibility. These are foundational skills not just for success in school, but in life.”
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foundationsft.com
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https://foundationsft.com/cleaning
The British Journal of Sports Medicine reported that only twenty minutes of physical activity was enough to decrease stress levels! Over 3,000 people surveyed reported that regular housework was enough to decrease anxiety and stress levels. While cleaning isn’t a cure-all, that percentage can really help boost your energy and calm your nerves. [...] If you dread cleaning, there’s actually a bright side according to psychological research. A recent study discovered that cleaning up messes actually can have a positive impact on your mental health and happiness.
So, if you want to destress, pick up your broom! Here’s why…
### Spring Cleaning For Your Mind [...] Many of us try to do our best to keep up with household chores and cleaning. But, no matter how hard we try, it seems like clutter always finds a way to creep back in our lives. Between work, after-school activities, playdates and everything in between, it’s easy to understand how clutter can sneak back in so easily.
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ideas.ted.com
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https://ideas.ted.com/8-ways-to-add-some-joy-to-your-most-dreaded-chores
Doing this can turn cleaning into a form of aromatherapy. Lavender is a good choice because it’s been shown in research to reduce anxiety. Citrus scents might actually help you keep a space cleaner longer — one study found that people were less likely to litter or make a mess in spaces where a citrus scent is present.
## 5. Document your efforts [...] Music and dancing can also soothe nerves agitated by certain tasks. As our resident designer Linzi points out, “I hate vacuuming because the noise makes me anxious and it takes a long time. I put on my headphones, turn up my music loud, and make myself dance around the apartment while cleaning.” [...] ## 1. Set a timer
Joyspotter Genevieve writes: “I hated emptying the dishwasher (I know, privilege) until I timed myself doing it. It took 4 minutes. Knowing that, it’s no longer a big deal.”
I love this strategy because it creates awareness. What seems like a big, looming task actually turns out to be inconsequential when we look at it.
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momwell.com
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https://www.momwell.com/blog/why-does-a-messy-house-give-me-anxiety
The anxiety you feel about a messy house usually comes from the invisible load behind each task, not the surface chore itself.
Reframing care tasks as functional, cyclical, and morally neutral relieves the pressure to reach a permanent state of done.
Laziness is a morally charged label, and an inability to start a task often points to something beneath the surface like overwhelm, neurodivergence, or task-initiation struggles. [...] A messy house often gives you anxiety not because of the visible mess itself, but because of the invisible load behind it, all the planning and decisions a single chore really requires. Add cultural messages that a clean home makes a good mom, and a pile of laundry can feel like proof you are failing. You are not lazy. Try reframing care tasks as functional, cyclical, and morally neutral, and let yourself rest before everything is done.
## Listen to Episode 136 · with KC Davis [...] KC said that if we want to overcome anxiety and shame around having imperfect homes, we have to reframe our thinking about care tasks.
We tend to think of household tasks as moral—there’s a sense of superiority in having a clean home. This leads to thinking that there is something wrong with us if our house is messy—that we are lazy or inefficient.
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reddit.com
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/184dcbm/is_household_chores_is_good_…
I was addicted to using smartphone and I forget my chores but my two grandmothers told me that I should learn how to do chores so I could make myself much
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healthunlocked.com
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https://healthunlocked.com/anxiety-depression-support/posts/149025598/why-am-…
Jan 20, 2023 — I accumulate dirty laundry in my drawer until I have literally NOTHING to wear. I believe that most people--depressed or not--do not want to do